May god rest his soul in peace.

Friends,

I am sad to inform the demise of our beloved friend T.Ravi who is no more after all our efforts to get him to normal life failed. Amar's efforts to do the best for Ravi could not prove good. Friends the link of the blog below if it helps any of your friends going through the same state our Ravi went before leaving this world will be best tribute we can pay to T.Ravi.
http://loveblog.in/heart-break/depression-and-suicidal-thoughts-after-heartbreak/

How To Avoid Depression And Suicidal Thoughts After A Breakup:

1) Voice your feelings to someone close. Avoid bottling up your emotions.

2) Don’t beg him/her to get back again. If he/she has decided to move on, don’t become desperate to get back.

3) Avoid wallowing.

4) Throw away all photographs and mementos of being together.

5) If there was a ring involved, give it back.

6) Read about current affairs. You will understand how many people are suffering all over the world. Your heartbreak will sound petty when you compare those suffering from famines, floods and terrorist bombings.

7) Focus your mind on your career.

8) Get involved in family matters and look after those who need your support.

9) Take part in a charity drive.

10) Don’t hate all men/women because you had fallout with one man/woman.



Heartbreak is not easy. Everything heals with time. So unless you make the effort to move on, life will only feel like a stagnating pit where people can only lend an arm, it is you who has to grab it and pull yourself up. Learn to stay positive and the right one will walk with you soon.

Vasu- My friend

Hello Friends,
Today I want to write something about my friend K.srinivasa Reddy( vasu). He is my friend for the past 25+ years and this is an achivement in itself. Today is a great day as vasu has done his house warming of his new house at Saidabad. For me its a festival day as I have seen vasu growing with me from 25 years. He was with me in every good and bad time of mine. I still remember vasu bowling with Malcom Marshall's action. The bet matches between anand nagar versus akbarbagh. tutions in the evening at Prabhakar sir's house. Then college days , life. Vasu was with me all along. I think if god has done any good to me in life it is giving a friend like vasu. Vasu's Marriage with Deepa, then vasu's first kid shravani and then the baby boy kushal. Completed family circle. Over time bought a car, house and completed social life. Now in 7 years vasu will complete first school life of kid. I wish all the best for him. I understood life from him. I am opposite to Vasu failed in life time and again. But still vasu loves me. I failed in dreams to have my kid. Vasu treats me as a kid. God please keep this friend of mine and his love before I leave this world for he is only one who never cheated me or parted from me. Please fulfill atleast this wish god.

Friends no reply posts please for this is about the person who loves me a lot and i have no place for any analysis about such a nice person. This is a opportunity for me to thank such a nice friend.

May lord vishnu bless all with happiness.

IPL 2009 - Deccan Chargers - My views.

What a final between Deccan chargers and Banglore Royal Chargers. Worth watching it till end. Lot of lessons to learn from this tournament. First let me analyze the teams. Kolkatta Knight Riders of ShahRukh Khan. This team has all big names like Brendon Mccullum, Sourav Ganguly, Chris gayle, Ishant Sharma. The problem was the coach who created confusions to such extent that people lost faith on each other in team. Hence they ended at the bottom of the table rightly. Any team which doesnot have common goal ends like that only. Next Mumbai, all great players Sachin Tendulkar, Sanath Jayasurya, Zaheer khan, Harbajhan Singh, Lasith Malinga etc. They played for individualistic not for team. Any person who thinks he is great and doesnot care for team goal is bound to face this situation. Ego of being greats made sure of their fall. Any person in any walk of like personal or professional feels individualistic is bound to bite the dust. The same happened to Mumbai Indians. Let us see the semifinal matches. Deccan Chargers versus Delhi Dare Devils. The match was supposed to have been fought more close than the way it went ahead. Virendra Sehwag played a very loose shot which got him out. He is a champion batsman, but he hardly believes in team goals even being a captain. That one match has taken away all the wins which Delhi had in the initial rounds. Chennai versus Banglore, what a match it was. Dhoni and Kumble both showed their mettle. But only one team can win and Banglore did as they did few mistake than chennai Super kings. But full credit goes to both the teams for such a good match. Dhoni was cool even after loss and presented himself as a nice gentleman. The last was the finals. I personally met Kumble at Delhi and he is a champion cricketer. He has the guts to open the bowling to Gilchrist. He is a spinner and bowling to Gilchrist where grip on ball is zero is not easy. But he took the challenge and got Gilchrist clean bowled in the first over of the match itself. We all know what is Gibbs. But look at the maturity that guy has carried. He was there till the end by guiding the younger players like T.Suman(nobody knows him before IPL), Venugopal Rao, A.Bilakhia(not even ranji player), harmeet singh. That is what is the quality needed for success whether sports or life. He made sure that a decent total is posted on the board. When it came to bowling Harris, RP opened with such a tight spell it has made Banglore to try something different. Deccan Chargers did not have big names but believed in their leader Adam Gilchrist and jelled well as a team. That was the difference in that game. Look at the bowling of harminder singh and superb catch(dream catch), look at Pragyan Ojha what a bowling, these are not big names but they did for the team. In any aspect of life people who work for teams and understand goals properly will deliver the results and people who are invidualistic and opportunistic for fame( Sachin, jayasurya doing idea ads) are bound to bite dust. Rajasthan royals was a great team, but they lacked services of shane watson and pakisthani bowler. I love this team too for spirit of game from Ravinera Jadeja, Naman Ojha etc. So friends finally a great show by deccan chargers who deserve this win for having people who played for team rather than indivisualists.

May god vishnu bless all with happiness.

Elections 2009 -An analysis from PSN Kumar.

Hi friends,

Its nice that the elections in India are over. The people of India has given their mandate and best wishes for the UPA government to take the country forward fulfilling the aspirations and hopes of the people of India. This elections have been unique in many ways. First the partners of UPA have moved out thinking it will not come back into power. The samajwadi party, the RJD, the LJP etc. For NDA the BJD has moved away. Then there was third front and fourth front etc along with left. If I analyze why NDA has not made to govt it is basically its own faults. First, it had the JD(U) in its campaign which was not 100%. Mr. Nitish Kumar sometimes says NDA some times says UPA. Any alliance should not have a person like this as it does no good to that alliance. Then there is Shivsena in Maharashtra, which says we are open to have advani as Prime Minister but not oppose Sharad Pawar also for prime minister if needed as he is from Maharashtra. Any alliance which doesnot behave as a single entity will face dust what ever be the leader. On the other hand UPA got rid of the nagging partners like SP,RJD and LJP and went to people saying this is what i can do if given chance. People saw truth in that and voted to UPA. Today the fate is that even if SP,RJD,BSP,LJP want to extend their support to UPA it is sheer waste as they cannot expect Ministries in return. All said and done teams which had faith in each other have made to the chair and teams which nagged and infighted have been left to lick their wounds caused on each other. Let us hope the new govt delivers results.

May lord vishnu keep everybody in the country happy.