Hello Friends,
Today I want to share my views on drastically different thing, on how to make democracy more meaningful in terms of voting in india. The biggest problem i see in voting in indian democracy is it takes quantity into account and not quality. First Indian voting system needs to undergo a drastic change. Let every person be identified by what he is so that the false votes into the system can be veeded off. Today every person has one of mobile phone, Pancard, bank account etc even to remote village levels. Let the person be identified by using any of them and create a universal number one for each individual and capture his education levels till one month before elections. Let the special skills like he is an industrialist etc be also captured and then let there be some multiplication factor for the votes. An vote of IAS officer should carry more weight to the weight given by a person who is a rickshaw puller. The reason and logic behind this being that the first looks the future of country on a bigger scale where as the latter looks on very small scale. Similarly the age of 35-60 should get extra points as future is very important at that age and they would have got some maturity due to age provided they have minimum education qualification. If we can incorporate things like this it will force people to do education and bring a country forward which can think of future.
Sunday, April 26, 2009
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Slumdog Rubina Ali, Relatives.
Hi Friends,
Today let me put my views about Slumdog girl Rubina. Friends i always feel mind is a different kind of tool which can accept and reject things. In the first case, it is real sad of the incident to happen with a small girl. But today relatives or so called relatives real colours are shown. The mother of the girl has left the baby girl and is living her life somewhere. The moment she came to know that her girl is in limelight she started to have saying she is my daughter. The same applies to her mama and step mother ,relatives including father. Let me bring to your notice one thing. Today how many girls are given away to sheikhs from dubai, saudi in the name of marriage and their future will be secured. Every week we see this happening. The mother of girls is a 'WELL WISHER' of the girl and she wants her to be married to the shiekh though she herself is married to a rickshaw puller. The relatives who know whatever is happening is bad still keep silent to get their pound of flesh(money). While all this is happening even if somebody approaches the girl and ask her to revole in 90% of cases they say my parents will do only good to me. Even in the case of rubina at the end she said i want to be with daddy only.
The concept of selling is not new to indian society. We had Raja Harishchandra who tried to sell his wife and kid but we feel he did best and console ourselves saying he did that because his time was going bad. Yudhishter could bet his wife for his pleasure of playing the game, but still we will console ourselves with something else. Friends do you dont see that it is time that we should mature and see truth as truth for ourselves. There are lot of families around us who are victims of the 'WELL WISHERS'. Isn't it the time to tell people to come out this concept of well wishers.Think with open brain and if it makes sense let us take a oath not to allow lifes to spoiled under the pretext of well wishers. LET US ALLOW PEOPLE LIVE LIFE. life is not just inhaling and exhaling. Think join force for a better tomorrow with society filled with LIFE.
May Lord vishnu bless uand familiy with joy and prosperity.
Today let me put my views about Slumdog girl Rubina. Friends i always feel mind is a different kind of tool which can accept and reject things. In the first case, it is real sad of the incident to happen with a small girl. But today relatives or so called relatives real colours are shown. The mother of the girl has left the baby girl and is living her life somewhere. The moment she came to know that her girl is in limelight she started to have saying she is my daughter. The same applies to her mama and step mother ,relatives including father. Let me bring to your notice one thing. Today how many girls are given away to sheikhs from dubai, saudi in the name of marriage and their future will be secured. Every week we see this happening. The mother of girls is a 'WELL WISHER' of the girl and she wants her to be married to the shiekh though she herself is married to a rickshaw puller. The relatives who know whatever is happening is bad still keep silent to get their pound of flesh(money). While all this is happening even if somebody approaches the girl and ask her to revole in 90% of cases they say my parents will do only good to me. Even in the case of rubina at the end she said i want to be with daddy only.
The concept of selling is not new to indian society. We had Raja Harishchandra who tried to sell his wife and kid but we feel he did best and console ourselves saying he did that because his time was going bad. Yudhishter could bet his wife for his pleasure of playing the game, but still we will console ourselves with something else. Friends do you dont see that it is time that we should mature and see truth as truth for ourselves. There are lot of families around us who are victims of the 'WELL WISHERS'. Isn't it the time to tell people to come out this concept of well wishers.Think with open brain and if it makes sense let us take a oath not to allow lifes to spoiled under the pretext of well wishers. LET US ALLOW PEOPLE LIVE LIFE. life is not just inhaling and exhaling. Think join force for a better tomorrow with society filled with LIFE.
May Lord vishnu bless uand familiy with joy and prosperity.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Love Marriage versus Arranged Marriage.
Hi Friends,
Today I want to discuss something on Love Marriage versus Arranged Marriages. Though both the marriages have their advantages and disadvantages. The love marriages take a brunt the moment it is a failure. Let me put my views and you can put your views for discussion on this. When it is a love marriage without the agreement of the parents, both the sides will be looking for a smallest of the opportunity to show that it is a failure. In such a case, such a marriage success is far less unless the two people have total faith in each other. In most of the cases, a small event can create a clutter and the bond breaks once for all as the so called 'WELL WISHERS' make an entry into the bond. The second kind of love marriage is a marriage where people love and their elders accept it out of force or compulsions of not losing the son or daughter. The breakage of this is slightly less than the first one, but whenever a gap comes, its bound to break very easily. The third type of marriage is arranged marriage, which the elders try to keep it in tact as their personal ego is associated with it. If the marriage cannot create love between the couple after marriage this type of marriages also end up in failure. So the most important thing is the trust between the couple. No body is perfect in this world. Finding faults is the most easiest thing. The moment u start finding faults people or so called 'WELL WISHERS' enter and create the gap to such an extent that is practically not patchable. So friends have faith in ur otherside and lead a great life.
Please post your views on this.
May lord vishnu bless u all.
Today I want to discuss something on Love Marriage versus Arranged Marriages. Though both the marriages have their advantages and disadvantages. The love marriages take a brunt the moment it is a failure. Let me put my views and you can put your views for discussion on this. When it is a love marriage without the agreement of the parents, both the sides will be looking for a smallest of the opportunity to show that it is a failure. In such a case, such a marriage success is far less unless the two people have total faith in each other. In most of the cases, a small event can create a clutter and the bond breaks once for all as the so called 'WELL WISHERS' make an entry into the bond. The second kind of love marriage is a marriage where people love and their elders accept it out of force or compulsions of not losing the son or daughter. The breakage of this is slightly less than the first one, but whenever a gap comes, its bound to break very easily. The third type of marriage is arranged marriage, which the elders try to keep it in tact as their personal ego is associated with it. If the marriage cannot create love between the couple after marriage this type of marriages also end up in failure. So the most important thing is the trust between the couple. No body is perfect in this world. Finding faults is the most easiest thing. The moment u start finding faults people or so called 'WELL WISHERS' enter and create the gap to such an extent that is practically not patchable. So friends have faith in ur otherside and lead a great life.
Please post your views on this.
May lord vishnu bless u all.
Friday, April 17, 2009
Father- A non thankful Role
Hi Friends,
Today I want to bring a topic which i was thinking of putting to discussion from long time. Whenever you ask anybody everybody talks about mothers love, her hardships etc. But friends the love and affection the father brings never comes to front, nor his hardships just go unnoticed. I want to touch upon from the past and put it to the thought of your intelligent brains. I am told Ramayana and saw it on TV also. There used to be a king called Dasaratha. He married Kausalya, but the couple could not be blessed with Kid. So he married Sumitra and then Kaika. But there was no luck of kids to the King. So he did putrakameshti yagam to have kids. That trial was a successful one and he was blessed with a bowl of sweet rice which is shared between the three wives of king. Kausalya was blessed with Sri Rama, Sumitra with Lakshmana and Kaika with Bharatha and Shatrughna. The kids were closed to their mothers and were looked after well by all the three. Kaika was very close to Sri Rama. The day of declaring the prince for throne has come and Dasaratha wanted Ram to be the next person as he is the eldest son. Kaika for her selfish desires wanted Bharat as King and she pressed Dasarath to fulfill her wish as she has a word from Dasaratha long time ago. Dasaratha accepted and Ram went to Jungle. It was Dasaratha who died thinking of Ram and being depressed of Ram's love and affection. It should be noted that neither kausala,sumitra nor Kaika died for the love and affection of Ram.
Next comes the thing of Ravan. The Emperor Ravana had a son by name Meghanath. After Meghanath has won the war against Indra, the king of gods, Ravana conferred the title of 'INDRA JIT' to Meghanath and was proud of his sons accomplishment. When the war was on its full swing Indrajit seeks the blessings of his father and enters war. He brings down Laxman who was saved by Hanuman by getting the herbs from Himalayas. The next day was a different and Indrajit is killed. Ravan has lost battle at that time, when he says winning this war has no use and it is only for records. The words Ravan uses for Indrajit shows that as father his love was above everything.
Next let me come to Mahabharat, devaki was married to vasudev and Kansa comes to know of the eighth kid who will kill him. When the eigth kid(krishna) was born, it was the father Vasudev who takes the boy and dares to cross yamuna and go out to save his kid.
Friends there can be n number of examples that can be given. But the truth is father is a person who loves you more as he makes your career, he creates your future and for that he puts everything at stake. What does a father expect a smile from his son/daughter bas. Today in this era of emails we are forgetting the importance of relations.
Please make sure you write( hand write) a letter once in a week to your father about any aspect. Believe me a father is very happy receiving it. Please dont use emails for it does not show the stroke of alphabet which is ur unique. Please think of it and keep writing atleast a letter to your father on weekend as it will not take more than 10 min to respect the person who has put everything at stake for your/our future. please think on this and pen your views.
May lord vishnu bless u all with a happy and peaceful life.
PSN KUMAR
Today I want to bring a topic which i was thinking of putting to discussion from long time. Whenever you ask anybody everybody talks about mothers love, her hardships etc. But friends the love and affection the father brings never comes to front, nor his hardships just go unnoticed. I want to touch upon from the past and put it to the thought of your intelligent brains. I am told Ramayana and saw it on TV also. There used to be a king called Dasaratha. He married Kausalya, but the couple could not be blessed with Kid. So he married Sumitra and then Kaika. But there was no luck of kids to the King. So he did putrakameshti yagam to have kids. That trial was a successful one and he was blessed with a bowl of sweet rice which is shared between the three wives of king. Kausalya was blessed with Sri Rama, Sumitra with Lakshmana and Kaika with Bharatha and Shatrughna. The kids were closed to their mothers and were looked after well by all the three. Kaika was very close to Sri Rama. The day of declaring the prince for throne has come and Dasaratha wanted Ram to be the next person as he is the eldest son. Kaika for her selfish desires wanted Bharat as King and she pressed Dasarath to fulfill her wish as she has a word from Dasaratha long time ago. Dasaratha accepted and Ram went to Jungle. It was Dasaratha who died thinking of Ram and being depressed of Ram's love and affection. It should be noted that neither kausala,sumitra nor Kaika died for the love and affection of Ram.
Next comes the thing of Ravan. The Emperor Ravana had a son by name Meghanath. After Meghanath has won the war against Indra, the king of gods, Ravana conferred the title of 'INDRA JIT' to Meghanath and was proud of his sons accomplishment. When the war was on its full swing Indrajit seeks the blessings of his father and enters war. He brings down Laxman who was saved by Hanuman by getting the herbs from Himalayas. The next day was a different and Indrajit is killed. Ravan has lost battle at that time, when he says winning this war has no use and it is only for records. The words Ravan uses for Indrajit shows that as father his love was above everything.
Next let me come to Mahabharat, devaki was married to vasudev and Kansa comes to know of the eighth kid who will kill him. When the eigth kid(krishna) was born, it was the father Vasudev who takes the boy and dares to cross yamuna and go out to save his kid.
Friends there can be n number of examples that can be given. But the truth is father is a person who loves you more as he makes your career, he creates your future and for that he puts everything at stake. What does a father expect a smile from his son/daughter bas. Today in this era of emails we are forgetting the importance of relations.
Please make sure you write( hand write) a letter once in a week to your father about any aspect. Believe me a father is very happy receiving it. Please dont use emails for it does not show the stroke of alphabet which is ur unique. Please think of it and keep writing atleast a letter to your father on weekend as it will not take more than 10 min to respect the person who has put everything at stake for your/our future. please think on this and pen your views.
May lord vishnu bless u all with a happy and peaceful life.
PSN KUMAR
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Hope has a time limit.
Dear Friends,
When i first came across this statement, i could not understand. I am told in school, college and by eminent elders that you should not loose hope till end. So this was a drastically different thing for me. But I know somebody who had put this would have thought long before making such a statement. I started to dig into it and found yes the statement is true. Hope has a limit till result comes. A student who has appeared in exams will wait for the result with a hope that he will pass in flying colours. When the results come the hope could turn true or false. So the hope ceases to end after the result. It may give rise to a new hope that I will perform better for a better result but the hope of this has ended is the truth. Similarly we see love failing or marriages failing. A lover has a hope that his/her lover will fulfill/try to fulfill the promises made but when circumstances doesnot support it, their love slowly fades and the hope that it can be reborn is also lost in some circumstances. Similar is the case with marriages when they tend to fail. Hope is the ultimate tool for business. When u can create a hope of good , the business automatically flows. when such hope is lost, even big business houses fall down in seconds which we had seen in stock market recently. Friends do post your views on this.
May lord vishnu bless everybody with happiness and prosperity.
When i first came across this statement, i could not understand. I am told in school, college and by eminent elders that you should not loose hope till end. So this was a drastically different thing for me. But I know somebody who had put this would have thought long before making such a statement. I started to dig into it and found yes the statement is true. Hope has a limit till result comes. A student who has appeared in exams will wait for the result with a hope that he will pass in flying colours. When the results come the hope could turn true or false. So the hope ceases to end after the result. It may give rise to a new hope that I will perform better for a better result but the hope of this has ended is the truth. Similarly we see love failing or marriages failing. A lover has a hope that his/her lover will fulfill/try to fulfill the promises made but when circumstances doesnot support it, their love slowly fades and the hope that it can be reborn is also lost in some circumstances. Similar is the case with marriages when they tend to fail. Hope is the ultimate tool for business. When u can create a hope of good , the business automatically flows. when such hope is lost, even big business houses fall down in seconds which we had seen in stock market recently. Friends do post your views on this.
May lord vishnu bless everybody with happiness and prosperity.
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