Sunday, March 27, 2011

good mail from my friend.

Ten things God won't ask:




1...God won't ask what kind of car you drove;
He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation.

2... God won't ask the square footage of your house,
He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.
! ;
3...God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet,
He'll ask how many you helped to clothe.

4...God won't ask what your highest salary was,
He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.

5...God won't ask what your job title was,
He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.

6... God won't ask how many friends you had,
He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.

7...God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived,
He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.

8...God won't ask about the color of your skin,
He'll ask about the content of your character.

9... God won't ask why it took you so long to seek Moksha,
He'll lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven, and not to the gates of Hell.

10... God won't ask how many people you forwarded this to,
He'll ask if you were ashamed to pass it on to your friends.


Read Carefully

Happy moments, praise God.
Difficult moments, seek God.
Quiet moments, worship God.
Painful moments, trust God.
Every moment, thank God.



PLEASE PASS THIS MAIL TO EVERYONE YOU KNOW AND LOVES LIFE

Friday, March 18, 2011

Sadism to core

Hello friends,

first of all it was good that i could make to hyd on vishnu's birthday and meet him in the school. I missed my flight. Came back booked the volvo bus. Was not sure will i reach before 11.30 to hyderabad and then to school. By god's grace i could make it. The kid was sent to school with brain poisoned againt me. With the help of staff there the kid was into normal state. I gifted him the things. I had carried gifts to all his classmates. This was something that i learnt from one of the person who used to send small gift to class mates. I carried lot of choclates for his class students. I carried sweets for principal and other staff. As I had already got the school things in my favour legally it was no stopping. I carried a big water gun for holi. Drawing books of jurassic park etc. At 1.30 the other person came. she took away gifts from kid and handed it to security and was taking the kid. I went took the gifts from secuirty and thrown them into car where vishnu was sitting. SADISM to core even with kids. Its a shame such people exist in this world and people like them get support from other shameless people. No body in this world has right to spoil kids. Just waiting for the court decision so that kid will get his rights from his father. Pray for justice to happen on kid atleast now.

Monday, March 14, 2011

One married man commits suicide every 9 min

http://www.saveindianfamily.org/about-us/siff-news/972-one-married-man-commits-suicide-every-9-min.html

New Delhi: Family problems, illness, love affairs, bankruptcy identified as top causes

Is the mounting burden of responsibilities driving men to the end of their tether? Numbers suggest so.

In India, one married man commits suicide every nine minutes. Of the total 1,25,017 cases of suicide in 2008, married men alone accounted for 57,639. While the number of women taking the extreme step did not lag far behind, men appeared more vulnerable to mounting social and economic pressures. In the case of women, the trigger was more emotional and personal.


The overall male-female ratio of suicide victims for the year 2008 was 64:36, according to the latest data of the National Crime Record Bureau (NCRB). The general scene is much grimmer. Suicides in 2008 registered a decadal growth of 19.4% compared to 1998, the figures say. They also reveal a year-on-year rise of 1.9% compared to the 2007 numbers —1,22,637.

The overall increase in cases involving women was 355 in two years while it was 2,187 among men. The increase in suicide among men is six times more than that of women. "Every nine minutes a married man is committing suicide in India. Are we ignoring our men too much or burdening them with too many responsibilities?" said Virag Dhulia of the Save Family Foundation, an organisation fighting for harassed husbands.

The data, however, may not be revealing the full picture. The number of girls/women attempting suicide is much higher than that of boys/men. But the suicide rate is higher among the latter, says clinical psychologist and family therapist, Dr Shelja Sen.

"The intensity of depression among women or adolescent girls is different from boys and men. Attempting to commit suicide often provides relief from depression among females, it doesn't happen the same way with men. So when they attempt suicide, it is more serious and harsh, and results in death," she says.


The NCRB data showed youngsters were more susceptible to suicides. Youths in the age group 15-29 years (35.7%) and lower middle-aged people in 30-44 age group (34.8%) were the prime groups taking the extreme step.

Family problems (23.8%) and illness (21.9%) were found to be the major causes of suicides besides love affairs (3.0%), bankruptcy, dowry dispute and poverty (2.4% each) being other reasons. In fact, suicides due to illness, drug abuse/addiction and poverty have shown an increasing trend.

Family problems, failure in examination and illness were driving children to the brink. There were 2,381 cases in this category. Family problems have also driven 10,027 youths (15-29 years), 11,363 lower middle-aged people (30-44 years) and 6,143 upper middle-aged persons (45-59 years) to commit suicide. Suicides among senior citizens were mainly due to illness.

The proportion of female victims was comparatively more under the heads dowry dispute (98.1%), illegitimate pregnancy (91.6%), physical abuse (rape, incest, etc) (72.8%), barrenness/impotency (not having children) (65.5%), divorce (62.2%), cancellation/non-settlement of marriage (53.5%) and suspected/illicit relation (50.8%).

Housewives (24,367) accounted for 54.8% of female victims and nearly 19.5% of victims committing suicides. It was observed that 70.3% of the suicide victims in both categories were married.

Among bigger cities, the four metros — Bengaluru (2,396), Chennai (1,309), Mumbai (1,111) and Delhi (1,107) — reported higher number of suicides. In fact, these four cities put together accounted for almost 45% of the total suicides reported from 35 cities, even though cases in Mumbai had declined marginally.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

40 more days

Hello friends,

Yes, 40 more days this judge can still harass without giving any judgement. Judicial harassment. I am prepared for same. After that he has no choice. He has to decide. Vishnu school has come into our hand totally. Vishnu visiting rights and custody has to be decided. No body in life would have faced this much of judicial harassment as i am facing. But i am not here to throw my towel. I am a fighter to core and will fight. Support me in this final fight friends for a last time. I will come victorious which will do good to kid.

Pray to god for blessings to vishnu.

PSN Kumar

ravi shankar good words

Stone (Pathar) has 1 unit of Prana
Water (Pani) has 2 units of Prana
Fire (Agni) has 3 units of Prana
Air(Hava) has 4 units of Prana
Ether (Akash) has 5 units of Prana
Animals and trees have 6 - 7 units of Prana

Human Being has 8 units of Prana. Hence he is called as ASHTAVASU. But humans are born with a possibility to blossom into a fully blossomed state. Lord Krishna has highest units of Prana – 16. That is why He is referred to as fully blossomed being.



Meditation helps to change your perspective. It improves the way you perceive things. It brings clarity in the mind. It improves your interaction with people around –what you say, how you react and act in different situations, you become more aware. In general, from a stress-free society to peace and health in individuals and from a violence-free society to a sorrow-free soul – all are side effects of meditation.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Trip to Delhi.

Hello Delhi friends,

Coming to your city tomorrow. After a long time travel to north india in the new capacity. Let us plan evening at any place u feel all of us can have good food. Let the life come back. let us enjoy back in the late night flight. Friends let us enjoy.

May lord vishnu bless us all.

Monday, March 7, 2011

Varun gandhi

Good Morning friends,

After a long time back in touch with you. Good to see varun gandhi getting settled in life. One thing it has shown is what is difference between maturity and being adamant. Varun has gone all the way to call his cousin rahul, priyanka and sonia gandhi to attend to his marriage. It is well known he and his mother were not treated good by indira gandhi. None of them turned up for the marriage. This shows how deep things run in our country. parties come first then human relations. Recently one of my friend told that he has seen somebodies facebook and the other person removed facebook entry itself. I said to him good. then he had put the same question to ravi shankar. the answer from ravi shankar was simple. simply forget it and move on. Any fights should be issue based and not person based is the lesson from varun marriage.

may lord vishnu bless us all.

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