Tuesday, August 16, 2011

How to time retirment.

The first wave of Baby Boomers turned 65 earlier this year. Once, that was the official retirement age, the birthday after which you could spend entire Tuesdays on the golf course with no judgment. It was also the age at which people would start to look askance at the office.

Indeed, a broad swath of older workers once faced mandatory retirement age policies, and until this spring, Great Britain had a "Default Retirement Age" (DRA) of 65. Past that, an employer could dismiss an employee simply because she was getting on in years.

But Britain's DRA has now been largely phased out, and social norms are changing. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, in the U.S., the labor force participation rate among people aged 65 to 74 rose from 16.1% in 1988 to 25.1% in 2008. To be sure, the increased participation among older workers is at least partly due to financial necessity — though the increase began during good times, rather than simply spiking during the recent recession. But even if you are financially comfortable, or if you can be flexible with living expenses, this increase in working seniors raises different questions: in the absence of social norms or laws, when is the right time to retire? What are the signs that you should stay, and what are the signs it's time to move on?

The biggest variable, experts say, is how you feel about your current job. "A lot of times, that can be something negative," says Betsy Werley, executive director of the Transitions Network, an organization for women over age 50 who are exploring what's next in their personal and professional lives. "You wake up in the morning and can't stand the thought of going to work."

Then it's definitely time to pick a quit date. If you don't loathe your work, however, then here are three more questions experts recommend asking before penning your resignation letter:

1. Do I have a life outside of my job? "Your work life is a big part of your social ecology," says Mark Miller, who runs the website Retirement Revised.

Even if you don't necessarily like your colleagues, humans are social creatures and need people to talk with on a regular basis. If you don't have a social network outside of your workplace, then you need to build one before you give notice, or else you'll wind up missing the water cooler fast.

2. How will this affect my family? Is your spouse ready to retire, or is he or she already retired? Or perhaps your spouse has no intention of retiring, which can cause tension if you assumed you'd spend all your time together. You may prefer work dinners with clients to eating in a romantic Caribbean restaurant, all alone.

Of course, if your children and grandchildren need time and attention, that can affect the decision as well; few jobs let you take off for eight weeks to care for your grandchildren while your adult child is going through a divorce.

And finally...

3. What else can I see myself doing? "If you have a big list of things you're dying to get to, you're in good shape," says Sydney Lagier, who retired from a venture capital firm in her early 40s, and now pens a blog called Retired Syd. "If you are just going to watch TV you're not going to like it."

People get a big chunk of their identity from work, and in its absence, you need to redefine yourself. How would you identify yourself at a party? If you don't have an answer to that question right now, spend some time coming up with one.

Howard Stone, co-author of "Too Young To Retire" and a retirement coach, recommends writing a letter to yourself (or a friend or mentor) from the perspective of you, five years from now. In this future scenario, you've created your ideal life. "Write about it as if it's already happened," says Stone.

What would you do with the extra time? Many people have visions of travel and volunteering with causes they care about, but a surprising number these days are also envisioning some form of paid work — either a part-time job in a new field they've always fantasized about (wine production, working in an independent book store), consulting occasionally in their previous fields, or starting their own businesses.

Whatever it is, try to be as specific as possible, because then, you can "start to work on what needs to be done to get to that ideal life five years from now," says Stone. The more alluring the image is, the stronger the pull will be.

"The ideal time to retire is when the unfinished business in your life begins to feel more important than the work you're doing," he says.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

My own lesson.

There r two eternities that can really break u down, Yesterday N Tomorrow. One is gone N o
n ther doesnt exist! So live today only.  Never think of yesterday for it is gone. Thinking of it anyway doesnot do any good. But it gives the lesson of what went wrong. just take that lesson and move on. Dont be worried too much about the future, for it is not as planned by you. There are lot of parameters which change before you reach there. So it throws one question, should i not plan for future. The answer is yes , you need to plan for future. But dont be surprised at the change of situations and loose heart. The simple theory in life is if there is a minus one side then there is plus on other side. E=mc(square). We need to understand the principles of life and move on. People may place lot of options, but it you who has to take decision. That is the most important part of life. Today when i see my students shiva, das, reddy, gopal taking i see maturity in this guys and i feel yes my direction has reached its goal. Shiva, das and reddy professionally went into turmoil, but the way these guys have handled themselves and family is worth mentioning. I also salute their better halves for being with them in the time of crisis and extending moral support. May god bless them with such support systems in their entire life whether i am there or not tomorrow.

May lord vishnu bless us all with happiness.


Saturday, August 13, 2011

There will be times in life when impossibility is felt, but then there are dreams and dr eams allow us possibility


Hello Friends,

Lot of times we encounter a situation when we feel there is no way left out. We feel it is impossible from here to achieve. That is the time when we need to relax and look back at our dream. If we have reached a particular situation it is because we have dreamed of achieving something and as a part we have landed at this situation. sometimes it may so happen that we have landed into such situation because of change of things that have happened or this was a logical break where we thought we will align ourselves to the dream we had. Sometimes it gives a chance to have a new dream which will take us to a more better situation. So dont feel that you are out of gas, rather dream from the situation you are in you can achieve something better.

May lord vishnu help us with achieving our dreams.


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