Its time now to get extroverts around rather than having introverts. This is coming from the experince. I used to have a friend at mumbai who is a gem of a person. He was hardworking, outspoken, easy going. Probably if i have to chose one guy who can walk straight into my life he was it. I could speak anything with him. He knew about my marriage, my love for vishnu. He knows each and everything about vishnu. He saw tears on my cheeks, smile on my face, laugh on my face. Enjoyed fruits with him, tea with him, lunch and dinner with him.
He had a brother who was an high introvert. My friend used to ask him to come and sit in the office. He said be in office, i will go on field to find more clients. But his brother was reluctant. His brother just used to sit at home rather than coming into his office. Not even speak to his brother who is trying to do good to him.
Slowly it moved my friend to start beliving on to outsiders who took advantage of the situations.
When i look to myself , i too have a brother. If i speak 100 sentences he has a one word for it. Worked on him from almost 6 months to get a minimal change. But its not working. If i speak anything personal, he cannot give an ear to listen. He must be having his set of professional problems. But it has become tough for me to sit with expectation that he will speak or communicate with me. I should start my search to findout people who can talk freely with me on any topic.
Time to move out and start to get people who will like me and communicate with me as what i am.
May lord vishnu bless before me in this.
He had a brother who was an high introvert. My friend used to ask him to come and sit in the office. He said be in office, i will go on field to find more clients. But his brother was reluctant. His brother just used to sit at home rather than coming into his office. Not even speak to his brother who is trying to do good to him.
Slowly it moved my friend to start beliving on to outsiders who took advantage of the situations.
When i look to myself , i too have a brother. If i speak 100 sentences he has a one word for it. Worked on him from almost 6 months to get a minimal change. But its not working. If i speak anything personal, he cannot give an ear to listen. He must be having his set of professional problems. But it has become tough for me to sit with expectation that he will speak or communicate with me. I should start my search to findout people who can talk freely with me on any topic.
Time to move out and start to get people who will like me and communicate with me as what i am.
May lord vishnu bless before me in this.
