Pravin Mahajan- Psycological pressure- Brain dead.

Dear friends,

Saw this article today and thought i should put my comments on this. http://www.deccanchronicle.com/national/docs-pravin-clinically-dead-249 .This is a perfect example of how mental pressure can kill a person with in a short period. We all know pravin mahajan killed his brother pramod mahajan. It is a known fact that he was used by some elements for their political gains. After killing he was alinated from his family. The pressure started building in his brain itself and the final thing is very clear. Even death has to be declared by govt for the body to get cremation. How many of us know the mental pressures we are going through. As i always mention this has no reference to anybody alive/dead, friends/enemies/relatives or whomsoever. We all know we are pushed to the end of mental pressures in workplaces, families etc. But how many times the people who should be our are with us. It varies from person to person. somebody may have a good boss who can shield to some extent the pressure and help employee regain confidence. somebody may have good father who could be a guide in times of crisis. somebody may have a good wife who can be a good friend. somebody can have a good friend who will divert the attention and reduce the intensity of mental pressure.

In telegu there is a saying for wife 'KARYESHU DASI, KARANESHU MANTRI, BHOJYESHU MATHA, SAYANESHU RAMBHA'. A wife when working should be like a coworker , when planning/discussing should be like a minister, when serving food should be like a mother and when sleeping should be a good bed partner. In today's world a person who should be good co-worker, minister, mother role players are almost extinct.

Mental pressures have to be handled individually, support systems in houses crumbling with nuclear families. Friends give a thought where are we going. Dont get into the words of wellwishers who create this mental pressures and move away safely. This happens time and again in everybodies lifes.

I sincerly wish god to give people a peaceful life.

May lord vishnu bless us all.