Importance of Proper guidance with cross checks.

Hello Friends,

Today 's topic is something which is close to my heart. Lot of us hear about people getting success and people getting failed and then giving credit or taking away credit from fate etc.

Today we join our kids in schools and also appoint a tution teacher etc and feel that our job is done. It can go to engineering levels too or appearing for those exams too. If you ask somebody have u done your job the answer comes i had done what all i could do but still he has not performed.

If you ask have u done the cross checks pat comes the answer what do you mean. How many times are u seeing the notes of the kid/boy. How many times are u asking him are u able to understand the topics. Before exams how many times are we taking note of their problems. I got him the model papers what more should i do. If not essay answers are u taking test of objective questions by randomly asking so that kid/feels that he is reviewed and will read.

The generic answers i am busy with my work. Mother say i dont know about all these.

Without naming this person I would say that i was lucky to share this, she has taken so much good intrest in the kid who was not making good to the level that kid started beliving that he can do best in the class. That is the spirit. Had that spirit been shown by her family members to her brother even he would have been different. this is not to lower him in anyway as he has done best in what he could do but could not get guidance at right time in age when it mattered.

I sincerly wish we need guide at every part of life to keep ourselves happy.

May lord vishnu bless all of us with proper guides.