 It is said familiarity breeds contempt! After you have spent years with one person, fatigue and boredom may set in and according to psychologists, it is not unnatural for these emotions to germinate in marriage or long relationships.
Besides, with marriage also comes many responsibilities and with it stress and pressure. Urban life demands you dedicate significant time to your work, and time spent with your partner and family takes a backseat. So if you are wondering how to keep romance alive in your relationship or marriage, tips offered in a new book may come handy and keep your relationship flourishing.
The book called Sizzling Sex written by Dr Pam Spurr, offers valuable tips on keeping the spark alive in your relationship, reports the Daily Express.
The ten ways to stay happily married are:
- Stay spontaneous
Do something that looks unplanned such as dropping in to your partner's office and taking him or her out for lunch, packing a little gift in his briefcase or getting tickets to a concert or the theater. Unplanned gestures such as these can up the romantic love quotient in your relationship
- Make loving gestures
While having dinner, you can put on soft music, light candles and tell your partner how much you've been thinking of him/her during the day.
- Make eye contact
Face your partner when he/she is speaking to you. Eye contact makes you feel connected and done the naughty, romantic way may increase the spark in your relationship in the bedroom as well.
- Agree to disagree
Try and avoid arguments with your partner. Next time you disagree, shock him/her in the nicest possible way by saying, 'You're right.' A sure shot way to put an end to conflicts in relationships.
- Embrace change
Surprise your partner by getting a new look. A quick and easy way to do this could be to dye your hair, restyle it or get a wig for fun.
- Do something unexpected
Offer to do something your partner won't expect, like sensually washing his/her hair in a candlelit bath or having a warm towel ready when he/she steps out of the shower. Or trying something new in your sex life. Changes or surprises in your sex life are known to add the element of fun in relationships.
- Celebrate your love
Do something symbolic such as planting a special bush or buying a pot plant that is your partner's favorite variety and let him/her know that it represents your love.
- Do a favor
Try one little chore that benefits your partner directly, such as dropping his laundry at the dry cleaners. Such things take only minutes but show how much you care and add value in your relationship with your partner.
- Cosy up to your rival
If there's someone in your partner's life you consider to be a rival, such as his best friend or mother, stop arguing about them and surprise your partner by inviting them over for a lovely dinner.
- Relive the past
Looking at holiday snaps, family photos or wedding snaps can also help in making a relationship stronger and the heart go fonder.
Try these out to make your relationship more interesting and allow romance in your marriage to last a lifetime! |
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