Thursday, August 12, 2010

Unconditional Acceptance

When Ravi kumar got ready for work one Friday morning, he announced to his wife that he finally decided to ask his boss for a salary raise. All day Ravi Kumar felt nervous and apprehensive as he thought about the upcoming showdown. What if Mr. Lalwani refuses to grant his request? Ravi had worked so hard in the last 18 months and landed some great accounts for Braer and Hopkins Advertising Agency. Of course, he deserves a wage increase.

The thought of walking into Lalwani's office left Ravi weak in the knees. Late in the afternoon he finally mustered up the courage to approach his superior. To his delight and surprise, the ever-frugal Lalwani agreed to give Ravi a raise!

Ravi Kumar arrived home that evening-despite breaking all city and state speed limits-to a beautiful table set with their best china, and candles lit. His wife, Tina had prepared an exquisite meal including his favorite dishes. Immediately he figured someone from the office tipped her off!

Next to his plate Ravi found a beautiful lettered note. It was from his wife. It read: "Congratulations, my love! I knew you'd get the raise! I prepared this dinner to show just how much I love you. I am so proud of your accomplishments!" He read it and stopped to reflect on how sensitive and caring Tina was.

After dinner, Ravi was on his way to the kitchen to get dessert and he observed that a second card had slipped out of Tina's pocket on to the ceramic floor. He bent forward to retrieve it. He read: "Don't worry about not getting the raise! You deserve it anyway! You are a wonderful provider and I prepared this dinner to show you just how much I love you even though you did not get the increase."

Suddenly tears swelled in Ravi's eyes. Total acceptance! Tina's support for him was not conditional upon his success at work.

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