Monday, December 26, 2011

packing and tears

Hello friends,

Packing a house is a real painful process. This is am going through in life second time on my own. First time i had to pack things to move from KPHB after my repeated appeals to get the life going failed. That day I cried like a kid looking at the things, for each pencil had its own place in the heart. With this pencil , i taught this java code. No body can believe, even looking at papers which are print outs with which i taught Java made me cry like anything. But as it is said your tears have no value for people who want to teach a lesson. Today when i packing here in mumbai my state is same. I waited here desperately for my son for more than 7 years. My friends sachin, sambha, preeti everybody knows how much i waited. I used to run to door like a mad fellow whenever calling bell used to be buzzed with a hope. It used to be paper boy or maid or watchman. With time hope died. I had come to conclusion that one side love never wins because it was only from my side. When leaving this place i think god wanted to send a lesson, may be that lesson was too harsh. He may want to open a new door of music which may be good. two more days will go in packing. God give me strength to pack these things. I am mentally dead with emotions surrounding each of the element. Dont give this pain to anybody god.

Hope lord vishnu bless everybody with love & peace.

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Evadithe naakenti

Just now watched the raja sekhar starrer movie evadithe naakenti. Raghuvaran is a good actor. What an action.Few actors can match him.  This was one of his last movies before his final breath.  He was a divorcee but never allowed such an act to deviate him from his professional career. I am also proud of myself for almost 10 years of court fight, bravely fighting against the lies of dowry harassment , attempt to murder of lawyer etc. I still fought as a warrior and a proud warrior. In profession also stood by the principles i believed in. If .i can run the show for 2 -3 years i am mentally prepared to retire from the professional life too.It will help to keep the maintenace money to be available as I have to pay till 18 years of vishnu. Let us see how life goes on from here. A new challenge and new chapters opening up.

Shankdar dada - mbbs

Watched the movie again today on Gemini TV. Used to cry badly whenever there was shankar dada mbbs song. Because vishnu used to like that song very much. he always wanted that song to be played on the laptop. But with the heart accepting the recent facts, heart said how many times will you cry kumar. vengance has over powered love. I could not compete against the lawyer P. Raja gopal reddy. I am only a technical person but i cannot lie to the extent of a lawyer. No regrets. When I look at my slate i find it clean filled with values i believed in. I had fought till end as a great father. Winning and losing is part of life. But have u fought with guts till end before u closed the eyes is what counts and I see myself as a warrior if not a winner. Just like the hug which has the power, i had done good things in life. Anu, who was on the verge of suicide at kolkata today is married and settled at Ireland. Vaishnavi, who is dubai with srinivas who was mentally supported during tough times. Sachin with whom i created so many trading strategies, preeti who changed jobs for growth and today with prestigious company and then helping her buy car and house. The telugu tea team, the pavi bhaji wala whom sachin knows. The list goes on and on. I see myself a part of bigger society and moved up the chain. May lord vishnu bless me with wisdom and strength to serve people till i die.

Anna hazare and indian judiciary

Early in the morning 6am i went and had tea. Bought news paper before i get eenadu at home. Reading the newspaper on anna hazare really i felt bad. First does the judge have what you call aukad to comment on such a person. Second doubting the integrity of such a person saying it is satyagraha for you and nuisance for some other. Mr. Judge let me ask you through this portal to whom is it nuisance. It is no elections sabha with voice and noise pollution. Third saying do it from your home shows to what levels you had fallen down. This enforced my belief that Indian judiciary is the worst. There is no way judiciary cannot come out of it.

This system will not change. I was having a word with my friend Sachin, who also felt this chain cannot be broken. The police - judiciary nexus. The politician - Judiciary nexus.  Common man like teachers, bankers, small business man cannot find themselves any where. May this system change someday so that justice can be seen by people .

Friday, December 23, 2011

Disturbed Mind

As the day of leaving mumbai is coming, mind is disturbed. 8 years of life went out here.Came as a guy who never saw this city. Who has no body in this city. Made my impression in this city. After 8 years returning from this city. mind is so much disturbed i dont have words to say. certain dreams totally crushed. Great achievements also at the back. Life is like that. If you love something more than normal, god takes that away. Then u realize that there is no meaning in loving that to such extent as it was not yours. you came empty handed and will go empty handed. I watch kuntiputrudu movie song 'gummalu thommidhi gundemo chinnadhi, eeh dhari vachavu ra jeeva eeh dari poyevu ra' too good song. One more song of vikram okate jananam okate maranam too good.

Happy moments for brother

Finally brother also has decided to settle in life. Thats a good thing. Its a happy time in the house. The new year is making its presence felt. A time when house was down is now on the upbeat. Thinking of buying new dresses to make myself more presentable. How fast life changes. There were times when only negative things were part. How to protect myself and family. Today how can family be more happy. Thinking to visit the sudharshanam near yadgiri to visit all temples. Need to plan my calender for new year so that every quarter i am out to one place atleast. With karthik and akhi becoming big it becomes need to groom them into best in the fields i know. Holidays they will be with me and I will teach them the best of computers. They cannot get a better teacher in computers than their own mama. Kids are also very happy seeing me in jovial mood. Enjoying gemini comedy, gemini songs dancing with them. The whole world is happy when u are happy.
May lord vishnu bless everybody with happiness.

Thursday, December 22, 2011

The positive change.

How things change fast in life is really intresting. The old fiat sienna is out  and new Hyundai Accent is in. My  association with fiat sienna was good. It served me well. I dont wanted to sell it, but still as fiat sienna has spares issue at Hyderabad , i had to opt between maruti esteem and hyundai accent. Hyundai accent had adjustable steering and that made difference. Any thing which cannot be adjusted is of no use in this modern world. Today started to fund one kid from the Thane orphanage. They asked what do you want this boy to be called. i said let him be called 'HRUDAY'. I will fund 'HRUDAY' as long as i can and i am sure i will get my share of love from that boy. The accent car will be my new year gift to my self. I am very excited of the same. How new people can get positive things going on this is the best example. I stopped living long back but now life has started looking rosy. New hopes and new aspirations have started to crop up and next 20 years looks like a newly laid road.

May vishnu bless us all.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

blood versus rose

Today the demo at reliance went well. I should thank god for that. After coming from reliance i was checking my email. so found the email from ever vengensic person. It said that I should not see the kid at the school. This was not a shock to me, because i knew first itself that my lawyer was sold out. Her police father has used his influence on my lawyer who got sold out. Then her fiance lawyer does not wanted the kid to recollect his father. It is a not a shocker to anybody. It is well known that she sleeps with the lawyer and why will he expect the kid to see his bilogical father. As the movie of annamaya states that one needs to be above these bonds  and i had achieved that state long before. I fought for sometime, but now I dont need to fight or see any reason to fight. Love always should be peaceful, when it enter vengence it is better to withdraw as there is a very big world other than vengence. The only purpose of putting this blog is in this world if there are people who want blood, there are people who love roses too.

May lord vishnu bless us all.

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Time to move forward.

Hi friends,

There is a particular lesson which i want to share with all of you. Whenever you enter into any divorce case situations, never fight for your wards. It is better you start a new life and move on. I did that mistake. Even if you fight and get few seconds/minutes/hours right it is of no use. Because ultimately a female is more poisonous than a snake.Even if u have a snake bite there are chances that you can survive. But a female bite there are no chances. Had a good discussion on surrogate kids today. May be this month end would see some decision from me where the kid will not have a mother(legal) to take away. Let us see how life unfolds.

May lord vishnu bless us all.

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Does this govt think of common man

Its high time. This govt has stopped thinking of common man. Middle class is in a bad shape. they are unable to make their two ends meet. Time this govt should be pulled down. Enough is enough. Let a leader like modi take over.

New person into life.

As the new year starts life is going to take a new turn. A new person entering into life. I will be assured of good food. I can be assured of a cup of tea by time i come back from office. I can be assured of somebody who can speak pleasant by time i come back from office. Somebody who can give me medicine when i fall ill. I can think of travels to badrachalam, srisailam, simhachalam, etc. I am just looking for new year. Fought enough for vishnu now i will leave it to my lawyers to work on it.


Friday, December 9, 2011

sometime to vishnu

As the new year starts I will be moving into hyderabad. This gives me to give some time to vishnu. I can see him more often than now. May be when he is getting into the school bus or when he is getting out of school bus etc.Surely i can reach the school before he comes, so that i can see him coming out of school bus. I dont know to what extent this relation will go, but i have mentally prepared myself that it is going to be a one side love. I love vishnu , but i dont expect it to come from him. Mind is calm and peaceful now.

Friday, September 30, 2011

Good article from rediff on financial planning.

Planning your finances well on your own can lead to achieving your dreams in a hassle-free manner. In retrospect, it wouldn't have been too far off when your parents' or grandparents' had to scramble at the last minute to meet a need which was to occur in all certainty. For example, stories like parents having to take loans against property / gold to educate their son / daughter. Such events could clearly be avoided if one had planned their finances. Money is an integral part of life; to satisfy any material need, finances come into play.


There are many more such reasons in favour of planning your finances.

Need to plan your finances

1. Emergencies

Emergencies are events that are uncertain, including the timing. Although one cannot anticipate the type of emergency -- medical, job loss, home front etc., it is better to set aside certain funds specifically to cater to contingencies. Typically, one would look at maintaining three months of household budget in savings / fixed deposits and an additional three months of household expenses in high liquid avenues such as liquid plus funds, floating rate funds etc.

In addition, a good chunk in equity mutual funds could also help during adverse situations such as these.

2. Hedging your life / health risk

The first step towards financial planning is essentially hedging of risk; if you are the sole breadwinner for the family, then it is essential to evaluate how much your family would require in the case of an eventuality. All earning members of the family should undergo the human life value calculation to assess the amount of cover needed.

Similarly, medical expenses are on the rise and one has to ensure that such risks are appropriately covered, availing an individual cover or family cover would take care of this aspect.

3. Optimising returns at risk adjusted levels

Every individual's risk / return profile differs and could be broadly based on the approach to investing, age, financial goals etc. There is only a certain amount of downside on investment that each of us can stomach. Often, individuals indulge in equity investments excessively, without appropriately evaluating the risk / return profile and later regret it.

Financial planning involves appropriate diversification which will ensure that one achieves optimal returns at risk adjusted levels.

4. Tax planning

This is an annual ritual which by far has been conducted by all of us in the most haphazard manner. Efficient tax planning can leave a lot of excess money on a monthly basis which can be used for investing and essentially building the corpus. Tax planning is also an essential part of optimisation of returns.

The below picture tries to capture the need to plan for your finances and the methodology one should adopt to achieve optimal financial planning.

Importance of goal setting

On the one hand one may have to scramble to meet needs which are likely to arise with all certainty and on the other hand, one could end up putting all eggs in one avenue thus hampering the long term objective of optimization of portfolio. Thus, the need for a systematic approach to chalking out financial goals.

Given here are four steps that will help individuals plan their finances.



The early you start, the more efficiently you can plan. This is simply because of the rule of compounding. If you have more number of years' to plan for, the amount you set aside for your need would be that much lower, as evident in the below table. In addition, as far as the returns you generate on your investments is concerned, compounding could be a clear game changer.



Assessing your goals

With passing time, needs could change or they acquire a new meaning with passing time and on achievement of personal goals. If you were to introspect, your needs as a college student would have undergone a sea of change and now you would have much different needs. Here's a look at a how things change for various individuals:



This is not a sacrosanct table of needs mapped to a#8805 it is just a sample of what people generally aim for at different points of life. Identifying your needs is only half the work done, quantifying them and aligning them with timelines will enable one to remain focused on the destination. Whilst executing the plan, one is required to take care of other nuances such as inflation, real returns, cost escalation etc.

A typical need-table for a 35-year-old could look like this:



Financial planning is not a one-time effort; consistent monitoring and re-aligning will be required to achieve 'Optimal risk adjusted returns'. It's best to start early and of course, anytime is a good time to start!

Tips for financial planning:

• Plan for all the certain events in life

• Include planning for emergency, tax optimisation, hedging of risk / return

• Financial planning should also take care of planning your liabilities

• Chalk your financial goals, align them to timelines and quantify them

• Take care of inflation, real returns, taxability etc., whilst planning your investments





Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Rajahmundry

Hello friends,

Though i had bought apartment i always had a thirst that i should buy some plot someday.  The dream has come true with the plot at Rajahmundry.  The icing on the cake is that myself, my brother, my sister , her sister in law all of us have taken the plot just 1 kms from the river godavari. I am very happy with the development. Slowly reaching all the things that i wanted to make. thanks for all your support that i could do this.

May lord vishnu bless us all.


Thursday, September 15, 2011

how time is powerful- sridevi

sridevi was a dream girl to everybody. But when i saw the photograph i could not stop from saying time is powerful. a lesson for all of us. We need to respect time.

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

chup chup ke.

Hello friends,

This week watched this movie also. It was originally a telugu movie in which vadde naveen was hero. But i like hindi though it is remake as it had shahid and kareena who were in love at that time. The scenes have come out more original. Few things of this movie is how real it is as how society chases a person. How even his father and mother also feel he is a burden. How a character of his mama's daughter keeps love on him. Shahid was too good in this movie as is kareena. But i feel bad that they have got separated in real life. Kareena is bound to loose on long run. If she was so much intrested in saif why hasn't she married yet. If the answer is career then it is a wrong answer. she has committed a mistake from which even if she wants to come she has no way. Hope her thing becomes a lesson to people who live their loved ones in short temper. Great movie with good comedy and good scenes.

Hope lord vishnu keeps all of us happy.

Rab ne banadi apni jodi.

Hello Friends,

After a long time watched this movie again while coming back to Mumbai.  I love/hate this movie for different reasons.  First i hate the hero for going a mile ahead to hold the hand of a female who has lost her lover who is supposed to be her husband.  I am not against lending helping hands, but for the type of attitude she has and hatred she has for him.  The word she tells 'pappa aap ke bareh me bhol bhol ke mujhe tang karthe hai'. She has already a negative impression on him. Then also he goes on to accept that girls hand to do justice to his teacher. After reaching his home does she give any happiness.  She is moody. She has her own dreams and world. The hero role played by shahrukh does everything to impress her but of no use. Her actual personality comes out when she meet 'Raaj'. She is interested in the life which has no responsibilities. If we just look and analyze at the character of 'Raaj' there is never any shade shown of responsibility. On the other side original shahrukh khan shows so much efforts by even indulging into fight with a very well built person.  Does that change her, the answer is no. She creates a plan to elop with 'Raaj'. When original shahrukh is mentally prepared to loose her suddenly a scene comes where they visit golden temple and she feels not 'raaj' but original shahrukh is right.  This is where story lost grip. As the character has made up her mind to be the 'raaj' the director should have allowed the character to go away with 'raaj'. Because in practical life when such situations arise golden temple will not come into picture. Hence the movie moved away from reality. It should have ended the heroine character walking with 'raaj' and a subtitle two souls with single aspiration of dance.

May lord vishnu bless us all.


Monday, September 12, 2011

Hey shona

After a long time I revisited this song. Peace with myself. It was those microsoft days when i used to hear this. Now in Oracle. It was like listening the song with any attachments. Enjoyed it to the core. Hope you guys would enjoy clicking the link.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=_K-0FooYp3o


May lord vishnu bless all of us with peace and happiness.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

How to time retirment.

The first wave of Baby Boomers turned 65 earlier this year. Once, that was the official retirement age, the birthday after which you could spend entire Tuesdays on the golf course with no judgment. It was also the age at which people would start to look askance at the office.

Indeed, a broad swath of older workers once faced mandatory retirement age policies, and until this spring, Great Britain had a "Default Retirement Age" (DRA) of 65. Past that, an employer could dismiss an employee simply because she was getting on in years.

But Britain's DRA has now been largely phased out, and social norms are changing. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, in the U.S., the labor force participation rate among people aged 65 to 74 rose from 16.1% in 1988 to 25.1% in 2008. To be sure, the increased participation among older workers is at least partly due to financial necessity — though the increase began during good times, rather than simply spiking during the recent recession. But even if you are financially comfortable, or if you can be flexible with living expenses, this increase in working seniors raises different questions: in the absence of social norms or laws, when is the right time to retire? What are the signs that you should stay, and what are the signs it's time to move on?

The biggest variable, experts say, is how you feel about your current job. "A lot of times, that can be something negative," says Betsy Werley, executive director of the Transitions Network, an organization for women over age 50 who are exploring what's next in their personal and professional lives. "You wake up in the morning and can't stand the thought of going to work."

Then it's definitely time to pick a quit date. If you don't loathe your work, however, then here are three more questions experts recommend asking before penning your resignation letter:

1. Do I have a life outside of my job? "Your work life is a big part of your social ecology," says Mark Miller, who runs the website Retirement Revised.

Even if you don't necessarily like your colleagues, humans are social creatures and need people to talk with on a regular basis. If you don't have a social network outside of your workplace, then you need to build one before you give notice, or else you'll wind up missing the water cooler fast.

2. How will this affect my family? Is your spouse ready to retire, or is he or she already retired? Or perhaps your spouse has no intention of retiring, which can cause tension if you assumed you'd spend all your time together. You may prefer work dinners with clients to eating in a romantic Caribbean restaurant, all alone.

Of course, if your children and grandchildren need time and attention, that can affect the decision as well; few jobs let you take off for eight weeks to care for your grandchildren while your adult child is going through a divorce.

And finally...

3. What else can I see myself doing? "If you have a big list of things you're dying to get to, you're in good shape," says Sydney Lagier, who retired from a venture capital firm in her early 40s, and now pens a blog called Retired Syd. "If you are just going to watch TV you're not going to like it."

People get a big chunk of their identity from work, and in its absence, you need to redefine yourself. How would you identify yourself at a party? If you don't have an answer to that question right now, spend some time coming up with one.

Howard Stone, co-author of "Too Young To Retire" and a retirement coach, recommends writing a letter to yourself (or a friend or mentor) from the perspective of you, five years from now. In this future scenario, you've created your ideal life. "Write about it as if it's already happened," says Stone.

What would you do with the extra time? Many people have visions of travel and volunteering with causes they care about, but a surprising number these days are also envisioning some form of paid work — either a part-time job in a new field they've always fantasized about (wine production, working in an independent book store), consulting occasionally in their previous fields, or starting their own businesses.

Whatever it is, try to be as specific as possible, because then, you can "start to work on what needs to be done to get to that ideal life five years from now," says Stone. The more alluring the image is, the stronger the pull will be.

"The ideal time to retire is when the unfinished business in your life begins to feel more important than the work you're doing," he says.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

My own lesson.

There r two eternities that can really break u down, Yesterday N Tomorrow. One is gone N o
n ther doesnt exist! So live today only.  Never think of yesterday for it is gone. Thinking of it anyway doesnot do any good. But it gives the lesson of what went wrong. just take that lesson and move on. Dont be worried too much about the future, for it is not as planned by you. There are lot of parameters which change before you reach there. So it throws one question, should i not plan for future. The answer is yes , you need to plan for future. But dont be surprised at the change of situations and loose heart. The simple theory in life is if there is a minus one side then there is plus on other side. E=mc(square). We need to understand the principles of life and move on. People may place lot of options, but it you who has to take decision. That is the most important part of life. Today when i see my students shiva, das, reddy, gopal taking i see maturity in this guys and i feel yes my direction has reached its goal. Shiva, das and reddy professionally went into turmoil, but the way these guys have handled themselves and family is worth mentioning. I also salute their better halves for being with them in the time of crisis and extending moral support. May god bless them with such support systems in their entire life whether i am there or not tomorrow.

May lord vishnu bless us all with happiness.


Saturday, August 13, 2011

There will be times in life when impossibility is felt, but then there are dreams and dr eams allow us possibility


Hello Friends,

Lot of times we encounter a situation when we feel there is no way left out. We feel it is impossible from here to achieve. That is the time when we need to relax and look back at our dream. If we have reached a particular situation it is because we have dreamed of achieving something and as a part we have landed at this situation. sometimes it may so happen that we have landed into such situation because of change of things that have happened or this was a logical break where we thought we will align ourselves to the dream we had. Sometimes it gives a chance to have a new dream which will take us to a more better situation. So dont feel that you are out of gas, rather dream from the situation you are in you can achieve something better.

May lord vishnu help us with achieving our dreams.


Saturday, July 30, 2011

Faith is like a backup Generator. It gives us power when everything else fails to do so...

Hello Friends,

Today's article is something which i have tested on myself. Its around 4 years back. Things were not rosy both on personal and professional front. I had one house at malakpet where my parents live. I always wanted to have one more house for my son when he becomes big. Things on the odd side, but faith is that i should do it. Worked on it continously and today made it possible. I wanted the house to be opened by my son. I didnot had visiting rights even on boy. Case was getting dragged. Most of my friends also gave up will it happen. We are fighting against the police community which knows how to keep on twisting the case. Faith that i will do it. Went on fighting the case the result is I had won the visiting rights of my son. But that did not end it. The otherside wanted to harass without giving the boy. Went back to the court with contempt petition, i am sure i will get boy through court police and if god wishes the other party can be sent behind bars for not obeying the court order. See how time changes.  There was a day when the otherside tried its level best to put me behind bars and justice won as i won the case and today they can go behind bars. This is what is called as life. It goes on its own terms. In the mean time I met with a very fatal accident on March 19th 2011. I was in ICU but I had only one faith that I will make sure that my son will do house opening and I have to live for it. Today i stand at a place where that is not far off. So friends have faith in what you are doing.  There will be lot of people to dilute your stand or disturb you from your goal. Have faith in your capabilities and goal will be reached. Keep thinking of better ways to reach the goal so that it can be achieved when u can relish it. I would share a chat between me and my friend mukesh(mehtamukesh18@gmail.com) which shows how your faith can uplift the faith of other person.

2:15 PM mukesh: It is great joy to see yr photo graph, Except near and dear one ,nobody will realise how much pain you have taken .


2:16 PM me: It was almost death fight

u are right

will increase frequency of visiting rights from 30 to atleast 60+ in coming one year through courts

2:20 PM mukesh: great Salute for your fight , i understand how person get joy to meet . It was greate historical battle of your life and in spite of many challanges you ultimate got ur sucess. This sucess ,according to me ,more than your education or professional achievement. Really salute to you. You are really inspiration to many more...

2:21 PM me: Believe me you will get your rights on your kid. You can use my case as it has become referencable by high court of AP

2:30 PM mukesh: but really ur struggle was great ........when i saw photograph, this give me joy , think how much to you

2:32 PM me: http://mypage.rediff.com/profile/myprofile?slidesong=yes#!show_video/3594379/4145587

just press this link if video plays for you.

u will say dada , you are a great son and a great father.

grandfather, grandson and myself

So friends work towards your goal with full faith.
May lord vishnu bless us all


Friday, July 29, 2011

Happy birthday Friend.

Hello Friend,

It was so nice to get up today in the morning and see that today is your birthday. Then comes sms ' kumar today is my birthday. Your guidance is needed all the time'.  Sent her birthday wishes. Though i am a techie somehow i have never been able to make a choice of sending a flower basket or sweets. Its definetly a failure though i have received such things in past. Infact this week one more great news was the chandigarh friend coming forward on her own and asking can u share your address I want to send a rakhi. I was touched deep in heart. I still remember that girl as a small kid crying sir madam has filed case against me in court and I may be punished. Time went on, she won the case and then its a happy moments. Infact I drew inspiration by the inspirational sms she used to send. I made it a habit that i will send inspirational sms to my closed group of around 50 friends. Shiva, Das, manikyam, venky, lavanya, preeti, priyanka, jitendra the list goes on who said that it is really inspiring them.  The best was my son's teacher who started making a chart of the quotes sent. I seriously wish my son imbibes atleast few of them to become complete.

Coming back to the friend who celebrated birthday, I cannot say anything more that when u need a trusted person you should look to such people. She was inspiration in my 2nd innings of career. Two times major accidents, the first person to reach my place with food. The person who shows faith when said something. I was part of two major decisions for her. One when she bought a car and second when she bought a house. I can simply pray to god to give her a life which she should get and not pain her any day on the path towards the end. The day she completes her house loan will be a great day for me to say yes i made a person achieve the goals.

Wishing you a happy birthday, and hoping I will be part of many more birthdays of yours to come I remain.

May lord vishnu bless everybody happiness.

PSN Kumar

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Good visit this time

This time during my visit to hyderabad i went to school to find out the first unit test results so that i can sign the report card. The visit is also to find when the second term fees has to be paid and to find out the upcoming programmes. I went to school during lunch time so that class teacher will be available, but i could not meet her. I completed the fees enquiry thing and in the mean time lunch bell rang. Vishnu/Rakesh saw me and came running to me and hugged. Then kisses on cheeks and forehead is normal. Vishnu likes to eat food from me. so he said come down and give me food. Kumar is always more than glad to do so. So we went down , he showed flowers pasted to walls saying i draw this flower daddy. I was filled with joy. Said daddy photo, photo I clicked the snap. Then started giving food to vishnu. One little girl/angel came and sat next to rakesh. Uncle Rakesh is class first, he is learnnext leader also, do you know. I said i dont know. I said will u be my friend. The girl said uncle no i will not be your friend, because i want to be friend of rakesh. I just laughed out loud. May the little angel be blessed with long life. In mean time vishnu said daddy , i dont want these girls i only want omer. I said its ok. With treasures of memories i am back into mumbai.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Someone was asking this question? Can money change a person's character? I am sure it can. Many years ago, over our radio's talk show, they were debating on this topic. Many were claiming they won't as religion or upbringing were the main factors which hold their dignities and self control. Out came a young lady of early thirties who was frank to speak her mind. She believed most people were bullshitting, hypocrites and were not telling the truth. Although she was a religious, homely, responsible, caring and a kind hearted person, if someone out there was prepared to pay her a million dollar and wanted her to change her character from good to the worst...she would do it. Though she had been working very hard for many years as secretary, she had never seen this much of money before. She did not mind to change her total self character, personality or whatever ways she was instructed to do so, as long as she could have those cash in hand. It was easy for others to say they won't, because...the fact was, nobody was given cash to do it in the first place. If cash was there, everything was possible and this is true fact of life.










I have to agree with this brave lady who was telling the truth. Even myself had experienced such happening. KK is a childhood friend since the school days. After we had left school, all of us went our different ways to make our careers. Of all our school mates, KKdid very well in his career and later ventured into business. He became rich, famous and was also awarded the Enterprenuer award ten years ago. I had not got a chance to meet him until about eight years ago, when I accidentally saw him in a private club having lunch with some attractive ladies. Out of courtesy and respect, I went over his table to greet him. Though his age had caught up but he still looked the same as like a boy to me. I called him by his nick name from our schooling day, "Hi! KK how are you? Is great to see you here. Can you recognise me? I am PSN from Nizam college." Out of surprise he stared with an unfriendly glimpse, and said, "I am sorry...I don't know you, please leave us alone." I was taken aback with that statement. I was sure he knew who I was because I addressed him with our childhood name. Perhaps he might have felt offended when I did not call him by the first status name,. I could not imagine Kk had changed from a humble simple friend when I first known him to now an arrogance and high headed person. The different was, last time he was poor but now he is rich and famous. Through some of our common friends, it was confirmed, our successful Kk no longer like to associate with his old friends who knew too much about his past. Money has definitely changed his personality.





My belief - "Money can makes the world goes round. Too much money can also turn our senses down. Money isn't money if isn't utilized. Money spend can contribute to economical growth. More so, if it is spend to save a person's life. Too much money can be evil. Too little money can be sorrowful. Just have enough and would do

Monday, June 20, 2011

good words of ravi shankar

You know there are two types of joy. One type of joy is that you get while getting something. As a child you always wanted to get something. Getting something used to make you happy. But the mature joy is that you get when you give something. When you share, you feel happy. When you see a good movie, you force everybody, ‘It’s a very good movie. You must see it.’ You just feel good because you have seen a good movie and you want your loved ones to experience the same. This joy of sharing is much superior and the world is forgetting that joy of sharing.

Saturday, June 11, 2011

nifty for 13june2011


Level Type R5 R4 R3 R2 R1 Pivot Point S1 S2 S3 S4 S5
PIVOT POINTS 5575 5567 5560 5552 5550 5545 5542 5537 5530 5522 5515
FIBONACCI PIVOTS 5557 5554 5552 5549 5547 5545 5542 55404 5537 5535 5532
CAMARILLA PIVOTS 5555 5551 5549 5548 5548 5545 5546 5546 5545 5543 5539

Sunday, March 27, 2011

good mail from my friend.

Ten things God won't ask:




1...God won't ask what kind of car you drove;
He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation.

2... God won't ask the square footage of your house,
He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.
! ;
3...God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet,
He'll ask how many you helped to clothe.

4...God won't ask what your highest salary was,
He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.

5...God won't ask what your job title was,
He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.

6... God won't ask how many friends you had,
He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.

7...God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived,
He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.

8...God won't ask about the color of your skin,
He'll ask about the content of your character.

9... God won't ask why it took you so long to seek Moksha,
He'll lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven, and not to the gates of Hell.

10... God won't ask how many people you forwarded this to,
He'll ask if you were ashamed to pass it on to your friends.


Read Carefully

Happy moments, praise God.
Difficult moments, seek God.
Quiet moments, worship God.
Painful moments, trust God.
Every moment, thank God.



PLEASE PASS THIS MAIL TO EVERYONE YOU KNOW AND LOVES LIFE

Friday, March 18, 2011

Sadism to core

Hello friends,

first of all it was good that i could make to hyd on vishnu's birthday and meet him in the school. I missed my flight. Came back booked the volvo bus. Was not sure will i reach before 11.30 to hyderabad and then to school. By god's grace i could make it. The kid was sent to school with brain poisoned againt me. With the help of staff there the kid was into normal state. I gifted him the things. I had carried gifts to all his classmates. This was something that i learnt from one of the person who used to send small gift to class mates. I carried lot of choclates for his class students. I carried sweets for principal and other staff. As I had already got the school things in my favour legally it was no stopping. I carried a big water gun for holi. Drawing books of jurassic park etc. At 1.30 the other person came. she took away gifts from kid and handed it to security and was taking the kid. I went took the gifts from secuirty and thrown them into car where vishnu was sitting. SADISM to core even with kids. Its a shame such people exist in this world and people like them get support from other shameless people. No body in this world has right to spoil kids. Just waiting for the court decision so that kid will get his rights from his father. Pray for justice to happen on kid atleast now.

Monday, March 14, 2011

One married man commits suicide every 9 min

http://www.saveindianfamily.org/about-us/siff-news/972-one-married-man-commits-suicide-every-9-min.html

New Delhi: Family problems, illness, love affairs, bankruptcy identified as top causes

Is the mounting burden of responsibilities driving men to the end of their tether? Numbers suggest so.

In India, one married man commits suicide every nine minutes. Of the total 1,25,017 cases of suicide in 2008, married men alone accounted for 57,639. While the number of women taking the extreme step did not lag far behind, men appeared more vulnerable to mounting social and economic pressures. In the case of women, the trigger was more emotional and personal.


The overall male-female ratio of suicide victims for the year 2008 was 64:36, according to the latest data of the National Crime Record Bureau (NCRB). The general scene is much grimmer. Suicides in 2008 registered a decadal growth of 19.4% compared to 1998, the figures say. They also reveal a year-on-year rise of 1.9% compared to the 2007 numbers —1,22,637.

The overall increase in cases involving women was 355 in two years while it was 2,187 among men. The increase in suicide among men is six times more than that of women. "Every nine minutes a married man is committing suicide in India. Are we ignoring our men too much or burdening them with too many responsibilities?" said Virag Dhulia of the Save Family Foundation, an organisation fighting for harassed husbands.

The data, however, may not be revealing the full picture. The number of girls/women attempting suicide is much higher than that of boys/men. But the suicide rate is higher among the latter, says clinical psychologist and family therapist, Dr Shelja Sen.

"The intensity of depression among women or adolescent girls is different from boys and men. Attempting to commit suicide often provides relief from depression among females, it doesn't happen the same way with men. So when they attempt suicide, it is more serious and harsh, and results in death," she says.


The NCRB data showed youngsters were more susceptible to suicides. Youths in the age group 15-29 years (35.7%) and lower middle-aged people in 30-44 age group (34.8%) were the prime groups taking the extreme step.

Family problems (23.8%) and illness (21.9%) were found to be the major causes of suicides besides love affairs (3.0%), bankruptcy, dowry dispute and poverty (2.4% each) being other reasons. In fact, suicides due to illness, drug abuse/addiction and poverty have shown an increasing trend.

Family problems, failure in examination and illness were driving children to the brink. There were 2,381 cases in this category. Family problems have also driven 10,027 youths (15-29 years), 11,363 lower middle-aged people (30-44 years) and 6,143 upper middle-aged persons (45-59 years) to commit suicide. Suicides among senior citizens were mainly due to illness.

The proportion of female victims was comparatively more under the heads dowry dispute (98.1%), illegitimate pregnancy (91.6%), physical abuse (rape, incest, etc) (72.8%), barrenness/impotency (not having children) (65.5%), divorce (62.2%), cancellation/non-settlement of marriage (53.5%) and suspected/illicit relation (50.8%).

Housewives (24,367) accounted for 54.8% of female victims and nearly 19.5% of victims committing suicides. It was observed that 70.3% of the suicide victims in both categories were married.

Among bigger cities, the four metros — Bengaluru (2,396), Chennai (1,309), Mumbai (1,111) and Delhi (1,107) — reported higher number of suicides. In fact, these four cities put together accounted for almost 45% of the total suicides reported from 35 cities, even though cases in Mumbai had declined marginally.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

40 more days

Hello friends,

Yes, 40 more days this judge can still harass without giving any judgement. Judicial harassment. I am prepared for same. After that he has no choice. He has to decide. Vishnu school has come into our hand totally. Vishnu visiting rights and custody has to be decided. No body in life would have faced this much of judicial harassment as i am facing. But i am not here to throw my towel. I am a fighter to core and will fight. Support me in this final fight friends for a last time. I will come victorious which will do good to kid.

Pray to god for blessings to vishnu.

PSN Kumar

ravi shankar good words

Stone (Pathar) has 1 unit of Prana
Water (Pani) has 2 units of Prana
Fire (Agni) has 3 units of Prana
Air(Hava) has 4 units of Prana
Ether (Akash) has 5 units of Prana
Animals and trees have 6 - 7 units of Prana

Human Being has 8 units of Prana. Hence he is called as ASHTAVASU. But humans are born with a possibility to blossom into a fully blossomed state. Lord Krishna has highest units of Prana – 16. That is why He is referred to as fully blossomed being.



Meditation helps to change your perspective. It improves the way you perceive things. It brings clarity in the mind. It improves your interaction with people around –what you say, how you react and act in different situations, you become more aware. In general, from a stress-free society to peace and health in individuals and from a violence-free society to a sorrow-free soul – all are side effects of meditation.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Trip to Delhi.

Hello Delhi friends,

Coming to your city tomorrow. After a long time travel to north india in the new capacity. Let us plan evening at any place u feel all of us can have good food. Let the life come back. let us enjoy back in the late night flight. Friends let us enjoy.

May lord vishnu bless us all.

Monday, March 7, 2011

Varun gandhi

Good Morning friends,

After a long time back in touch with you. Good to see varun gandhi getting settled in life. One thing it has shown is what is difference between maturity and being adamant. Varun has gone all the way to call his cousin rahul, priyanka and sonia gandhi to attend to his marriage. It is well known he and his mother were not treated good by indira gandhi. None of them turned up for the marriage. This shows how deep things run in our country. parties come first then human relations. Recently one of my friend told that he has seen somebodies facebook and the other person removed facebook entry itself. I said to him good. then he had put the same question to ravi shankar. the answer from ravi shankar was simple. simply forget it and move on. Any fights should be issue based and not person based is the lesson from varun marriage.

may lord vishnu bless us all.

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Judicial harassment

Well this is the term that should be used. After arguments, judges reserve the order. No body can question till how many days. Are we criminals to have judgements reserved in family disputes. Does a simple case like visiting rights/custody need to have judgement reserved. Answer is no. But truth is different. In this country there is nothing called as justice. The same bastard judges pass order in the case of goons in hours. A collector kidnapped, order for bail in 3 hours to naxals. Telagana students burning buses , should be free order in 2 days. If you are good u will not get justice. This is the order of the day in this country. Started hating this country and my fate to come back to this useless country. I think its time that i should take help of naxals etc to resolve this case. Otherwise it is going nowhere.

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Ravi Shankar good words

Look at the present moment - now, now, now! Wake up NOW! Everything else is stupid. All that has happened has gone into emptiness. Everything dissolves into emptiness. Your entire past - wiped out! All the things that you felt are gone. Good or bad, they are gone. So, wake up to the truth of the present moment. Divinity is in the present moment. This is yoga. Yoga is being established in the moment.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Ravi shankar good words

GDP of a country should be now measured with GDH- Gross Domestic Happiness. Factor which state is happy, which country is happier than the other. Having a big bank balance and being depressed is not prosperity. You should have the mind to enjoy that prosperity. You may have enough food, but you suffer from diabetes and depression and heart problem. That doesn’t count to be a healthy society. So whether it is economy or politics, social entrepreneurship or any activity, everything is centered around one fact: welfare of the society.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Thanks for the wishes friends.

Hello friends,

Thanks for the wishes which started midnight. Special thanks to anuradha, who took time to send birthday wishes from ireland. I wish her and husband to have a rocking belgium trip. I want to thank each one of you who reached me on mobile, facebook , email , cards etc. I cannot repay the love and affection you have shown on me.

There are plans for this birthday too. From the past 3 years it was a bunch of flowers and dry fruits which used to land at midnight. This year i missed them. I never knew how to manage such precession even till this date and this moment. This year has to be a good one for me. I expect my kids case getting over before the official birthday. The judgement should come at any time. I had got the education rights of vishnu which is an achievement in its own way. There are few slippages of last year. The MBA program has not reached where it has to go. It was in a way lesson, to help people who want to read rather than force on people to read. From macroscopic point of view, the intent was good but failed to understand the ground realities. Nothing personal against anybody as all of us grow with time. The one thing that i know is that to err is human to correct is also human. If i do something wrong i don't mind asking a sorry and rectifying the things even in professional life, for i always believed in live life concept in word and deed. My visits to vishnu has been good though they are all less than 10 min encounters. Hope to see something positive coming through the judgement in vishnu's case. The education help is going to continue this year too as that is something which i always feel noble. My say in the vishnu school is becoming loud and clear. with back to helm at national level i should help more youngsters to settle their lives. I wish god give that strength to me. Need to think a level up on bhagvadgita. The gita says when we want to harm somebody it comes back and harms us. so willingly or unwillingly never try to do bad to anybody. Let us see where life takes us in the next few days. Pray for kumar that vishnu becomes reality as i am in touching distance after a fight of decade. May god do good to all who have helped me shape up also to people who left our company.

May lord vishnu bless all of us with peace and safety.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Back to National Level role.

Hi friends,

A good news. I am back to the national level role. I will start again visiting places. surely we can reconnect which is lost during the last few years. I will be glad to meet you all. Will keep you posted whenever visiting your cities.

May lord vishnu bless one and all.

Friday, February 18, 2011

How life changes.

Apple CEO Steve Jobs has just six weeks to live: Report

London: Apple founder and CEO Steve Jobs has terminal pancreatic cancer and may live for just six more weeks, a media report said on Thursday.

The 55-year-old Jobs in January announced that at his request, the board of directors granted him a medical leave of absence so that he could focus on his health.

Since then, employees have said Jobs can still be seen at the company's headquarters in California and is also calling all the strategic shots from his home.

Now, new pictures have been published in the tabloid National Enquirer, which suggest things may be worse for the man behind the iPod, iPhone and iPad.

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The report said Jobs is stricken with pancreatic cancer and may have just six weeks to live.

The new photos show him looking painfully frail and weak, with his jeans and dark top hanging loosely on his six-feet-two-inches, frail body, the Daily Mail reported.

The pictures were not yet available online, but Jobs's weight is said to have dropped from a pre-cancer 175 pounds to 130 pounds now, according to the National Enquirer.

His thinning hair was a sign of the effects of chemotherapy used to treat the disease.

The photos, which were taken Feb 8, showed Jobs going for breakfast with his wife Laurene Powell before heading to the Stanford Cancer Centre in California.

Jerome Spunberg, a doctor, said: 'Mr. Jobs is most likely getting outpatient chemotherapy at Stanford because the cancer has recurred.'

Gabe Mirkin, a physician with 40 years' experience, said: 'He is terminal. What you are seeing is extreme muscle wasting from calorie deprivation, most likely caused by cancer. He has no muscle left in his buttocks, which is the last place to go.'

'He definitely appears to be in the terminal stages of his life from these photos. I would be surprised if he weighed more than 130 pounds.'

Critical care physician Samuel Jacobson also said: 'Judging from the photos, he is close to terminal. I would say he has six weeks.'

A source, who recently saw Jobs, added: 'He is very frail, moving like a weak, feeble old man. He weaves back and forth when he walks, as if he is having trouble keeping his balance, and the pain of every step is evident on his face.'

The Apple CEO, who is worth $6 billion, is currently on his third medical leave, and has battled a rare form of pancreatic cancer for seven years and had a liver transplant in 2009.

An Apple spokesman did not comment on the new photos.



Read more at: http://www.ndtv.com/article/world/apple-ceo-steve-jobs-has-just-six-weeks-to-live-report-86159?cp

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

good words of ravi shankar

In this world, there is place for ignorance also. If someone is blaming you, it is out of their ignorance. And if it is not ignorance, it is mal-intention or jealousy and I would club all these emotions as part of ignorance. So, the best is you move on and don’t get stuck because you have no way to control other’s opinion and you don’t need to - everyone can have their own opinion. The best formula is to educate and ignore.


You know there are two types of joy. One type of joy is that you get while getting something. As a child you always wanted to get something. Getting something used to make you happy. But the mature joy is that you get when you give something. When you share, you feel happy. When you see a good movie, you force everybody, ‘It’s a very good movie. You must see it.’ You just feel good because you have seen a good movie and you want your loved ones to experience the same. This joy of sharing is much superior and the world is forgetting that joy of sharing.

Friday, February 11, 2011

unconditional love

When you don’t want anything in return, that is called unconditional love. Not even a thanks or a sense of gratitude or gratefulness. A lot of times people help others but these little expectations are there and that is what bugs them and pulls them down. That is also a condition.
Unconditional love comes naturally as your consciousness blossoms. You can’t force it on yourself or cultivate it. I don’t know how to cultivate it. It’s simply a phenomenon.

Good one from ravi shankar.

There are many meanings of Dhantaras. In life, there should be all types of prosperity – usually money is associated with prosperity. Satisfaction is true wealth. The air, earth and time are also wealth. The right usage of time is very important. There is a wealth in knowledge. Its nectar should be in our consciousness. Whatever we have, whatever we can give, should be shared. We must practice charity.

Today the priests performed a yagya with Vedic rituals. Prayer is an expression of showing your gratitude towards God. Eight years ago we performed a yagya here. Since then there has been no famine. Earlier there were parch lands everywhere, today there is greenery all over. We should thank Goddess Laxmi for bringing prosperity to Saurashtra.

Divine love is not somewhere far, it is with me right here. If we have this faith, then we can never feel separate from Divine love. I have come to tell you that you can never be far from God. If you understand this today then I will consider my work done.

Devi and Devtas are forms of God. Honor them and rest deep in your subtle Self.
Is there only one type of sweet, then how can God be of one kind? Yesterday 5,600 types of dishes were displayed. 35,000 children, who had never seen these many varieties of sweets, ate from the spread.
Two years ago an event called Brahma Naad was organized in Delhi where 1,200 sitarists performed.
People said it’s not possible. Yet to make the impossible possible is our work. In Pune, 2,700 vocalists came together. Then the Gujarat team came up with this idea of Annam Brahm.

All this is a part of Goddess Laxmi. There are eight kinds of wealth that come in everybody’s life.
We rekindled this spark of Goddess Laxmi in our consciousness.

Just know that whatever you want, you will get.
Lord Krishna said that leave all religions and come to Me, I will liberate you from all your sins.
But we do just the opposite. We keep clinging to religion and start our journey to save ourselves from our own sins.

In the rush of our daily lives, we forget that Divinity is within us.
Let us all take this sankalpa - Remembering again and again that the Divine music is within us, my family and I take this commitment that people all over the world should stay happy.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

20 Working days

Yes 20 working days a judgement either in favour or against. But one has to accept. I am very unhappy with my lawyers job to present my kids case. But there is hardly anything that can be done now. Lawyers get sold away. I got the services of the best of the lawyer but if he is also sold out what can i say. Total faith on judiciary is lost. I will not allow anybody to go to courts, for it is better accept lost at that place and u will save time and lawyer fees. Bad to write this way but that is truth.

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Poisoning childs brains.

Hello friends,

The topic today that i am touching is very very sensitive. I said it is sensitive because i am also going through it.

In today's world the word called human feelings is getting lost far fast. Most of the couples may be fighting for some reason or other. The people who are fighting are using kids to settle the equations. The children's heart and soul are poisoned against the other. I am myself a victim of same. I had gone to the PTM (parent teacher meeting) when i got an invite from school and faced such a situation. Believe me it was so tough.

I remember one chandigarh case where the kid was poisoned of brain against the 75 years old grand parents who had lost their only son. What can anybody say.

I dont have faith to wish such people will change also.

May god doesnot give this pain to anybody.

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Depression: The Facts vs the Myths

"It’s all in your head. Only women get depressed. If you have depression, you’re stuck with it for life." These are nothing but myths related to depression. The feature debunks the common myths related to depression.

1. Myth: Depression is a sign of weakness.

Fact: No, As with many diseases, depression is caused by a combination of genetic factors and exposure to a stressful life event.

2. Myth: Most people can ‘snap out’ of a depressed state. There is no need to take treatment.

Fact: Depression is a serious health condition that usually requires treatment with medication, counseling o a combination of both.

3. Myth: Most patients only need medication for depression for a short period of time.

Fact: Even though you may be feeling better, taking medication for too short a time can lead to the return of your depression symptoms.

4. Myth: If antidepressant medications have not started working out, they’ll never work.

Fact: Antidepressant medications usually take two or four weeks to start working. So, it will take some time for you to notice their effects.

5. Myth: Depression is a normal part of getting older.

Fact: Depression is not a normal part of aging, but seniors do generally experience more of the events that can trigger depression: loss of family and friends, ill health, isolation and financial worries.

6. Myth: Depression only affects women.

Fact: Although women report being affected by depression twice as much as men, depression certainly affects men as well. Often, clinical depression is underreported in men.

7. Myth: Depression is no different from getting the “blues”.

Fact: The blues only last a day or two. Depression, on the other hand, can last a lifetime, and the illness is much more pervasive and disabling

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