Hi Friends,
Today I want to discuss something on Love Marriage versus Arranged Marriages. Though both the marriages have their advantages and disadvantages. The love marriages take a brunt the moment it is a failure. Let me put my views and you can put your views for discussion on this. When it is a love marriage without the agreement of the parents, both the sides will be looking for a smallest of the opportunity to show that it is a failure. In such a case, such a marriage success is far less unless the two people have total faith in each other. In most of the cases, a small event can create a clutter and the bond breaks once for all as the so called 'WELL WISHERS' make an entry into the bond. The second kind of love marriage is a marriage where people love and their elders accept it out of force or compulsions of not losing the son or daughter. The breakage of this is slightly less than the first one, but whenever a gap comes, its bound to break very easily. The third type of marriage is arranged marriage, which the elders try to keep it in tact as their personal ego is associated with it. If the marriage cannot create love between the couple after marriage this type of marriages also end up in failure. So the most important thing is the trust between the couple. No body is perfect in this world. Finding faults is the most easiest thing. The moment u start finding faults people or so called 'WELL WISHERS' enter and create the gap to such an extent that is practically not patchable. So friends have faith in ur otherside and lead a great life.
Please post your views on this.
May lord vishnu bless u all.
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