cost of past

An intresting debate i had put across and the compiled reasons from lot of readers found worth while.  While there can be past for everybody what is the cost was debate.

I thought about this question for a while and compiled many reasons to why this is a super bad idea. Below you will find 10 good reasons why this would be harmful OR even fatal top your relationship.


Let me give you the reasons in a list to why:

First. Women know men already have some kind of past, in talking about it, we either do not believe you or, our imaginations will make it more than it was! This can cause pain and misery for you.

Second: Woman never forget any of these details, and will throw it out there next week, month and year, along with the rest of your life. Anytime she feels like throwing it your face, she will! And if your details do not match up to the last time, she will be right on it, and you will be sorry.

Third: what happens if you run into this person down the road, say at a party ,or at a restaurant, and she comes up and starts yap, yap, yapping, you know your wife will do? . Don't get me started on how that will make your life a living hell.


Fourth: no one like to be compared to anyone else, talking about ex's, nothing good is going to come out of that! Your wife might start asking details you do not want to talk about.


Fifth: leave something for yourself, talk about it with your buddy, you can give more juicy details, and make it really more than it was, like most men do! Women do not need to hear the details.


Sixth: She really does not care, she wants you to pay attention to her. If you do want to say something about an ex, trash her.. That will make your lady feel special.

Seventh: If you took your ex on a vacation, or treated her to extravagant things, you are in huge trouble. You better prepare to spend some money.

Eighth: Let her always wonder, a lady likes a little mystery. If she persists in knowing, tell her that it was boring and sad before you met her. That once you met her your life was changed forever! Let her feel that no matter what you chose her. Basically lie.

Ninth: If you ignore the warnings and decide to tell her, be ready, you might get all her details, and unless you are ready for that, do not open that can of worms!

And finally tenth: If you tell her all your past, she may want to become a part of it ,or, your future may become a living hell.

The info shared from viewers on debate are not purely personal but compilation which most agreed and no intention of pointing or reffering to anybody living or dead.