Hello friends,
I think the time for team reorientation is on cards. Though the thought process was there from long time pending it has pressed itself few days back. Saturday i went to my friend sachin's office. sachin was just going out and said i will be back in 10 minutes. I went to office and was there for sometime. Informed the person there to tell sachin give me a call back once he is back. I thought I will complete some washing etc and come back. Came to house and 4pm i decided to go back. Got up from my laptop and came into hall. Suddenly i felt everything around me revolving thats is. Fell down unconscious. Early morning 3 am of sunday i got conscious. Almost 12 hours lying unconscious in the hall. Seems backside of head has hit ground first as there was pain there when i got up. Luckily there was no damage to shoulder which i am trying to get back. when i got up and saw there were almost 40 missed calls. Sachin has done lot of calls. But i had no idea of the same. After i got up a shiver went down the the spine. I know chakri of wipro who died without getting noticed. The door was wide open. Unfortunately the maid who comes to clean the house at night also didnot came.
Coming to teamside, there have been lot of changes which have took place and which needs to be addressed to keep psycological balance in place. The watchman's both of them have got changed. Good , bad ugly whatever it is they used to keep speaking about village, food, their living etc which used to take off professional pressure when i am back. Suddenly it is loss of both watchman's. Driver Kamlesh used to be the morning friend who used to talk something in the morning having a cup of tea. Something what is in newspaper etc and it used to be a talk of atleat 20 min. Ramakrishna Prasad who used to be at mumbai was a night dinner friend. Everyday night for dinner it was religious. Sachin used to say wah dada. ekdam time pe khana khate ho. He got transffered to Hyderabad and left. Had he been there, i would have been atleast pushed to hospital when fell down unconscious. His transfer to hyderabad has made big dent. He was one person who used to make me laugh telling movie jokes. Ram Prasad is getting married took house at Thane and moved out. Nagaprasad is getting married this month and has taken house at Seawoods and moved there. the tea batch of visu, suman etc. Visu is getting married on 18th and is moving to different place. 20 days from now sachin will be going to patna for his marriage. Even this bond will get diluted after he comes back as he has to give time to family which is very very important. Microsoft days used to have drivers like dhumal, reddy, shinde with whom i used to speak out about dreams of vishnu etc. The more up you go in professional ladder the less are the number of friends.
Personal pressures anyway exist as they are not going to come down. Time to get some new friends in and get relived from professional pressure once back. Introduced a second maid into home in the morning from today so that somebody will be at home though there is very little of work availble at home. The maid is a telugu speaking person so atleast sometime mind gets diverted. Asked her to read newspaper loud looks funny but it basically keeps dialogue as it poses questions oh is it, it should not have been done, is this village near to your village etc. Need to bring more customer meetings rather than team meetings so that freshness can start come in.
The 12 hours fall is a serious lesson from god. Do help me to build new bridges with positive mindsets which will be mutually beneficial. I expect all of your cooperation.
May lord vishnu bless all of us.
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Kumar it was really sorrow to know this situation. It is very easy to say but it is only known to person who has gone through it. The only thing i can tell is use revital tablets. Make sure multivitamin tablets as part of post dinner.
ReplyDeleteRegarding friends, kumar how many have come and gone from our school days. Do we have a count of it. Change is a part of life. This is what u used to say when u were at intermediate and when i used to be down. Think of a girl, your sister or me itself after getting married girls go to other places and needs to get adjusted to new environment, new people, new culture, new demands etc. Still are people not doing it. In today's world even bonds are breaking kumar. Money is able to break anybond brother-brother, brother-sister, husband-wife etc. Here they have gone to different places still in touch on mobile etc. See it as opportunity for you to get a new team and may be this team can be kumarII itself in all respects which helps you in dreams you dream. This is all what i can say as a school friend. I am sure atleast 1% will make sense. Keep smiling kumar for you look good in that. take care
After every autumn there is a spring. After every night there is a morning kumar. May be these friends are not upto mark as they could not attend on a person who is unconscious for 12 hours. I am sure you will get the best friends. Take my word you will get a new dream team. Your goodness will only help.
ReplyDeleteKumar it is bad. I cannot say anything more. This article has made me think for a long time. How can god do such things. One thing is try to get friends who can reach u rather than saying was calling etc. Any relation which cannot be near is useless kumar. I see wife working in one city husband in other and saying take care. Is that called relationship as other is not available when somebody is in need. Your friend could have dropped in your house to see when your phone is not lifted. Some people have this bad habit of not lifting phone and it makes everybody believe other person is busy etc. But seriously he should have dropped in. Keep first aid handy in home as head struck first. what if some serious problem. You cannot run to hospital. so first keep your first aid box full. friends they come and go so dont think about it. first take care of health. Drink milk everyday without fail in the morning. Nights try to take some juice even if canned one. Take food at time. What more can I say. Dont take tensions. If you have BP take tablets for that. I am sure a happy kumar with good knowledge sharing will be with us for a long time.
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ReplyDeleteRashi:'I may not be able to read this blog anymore, so this is my last comment and the last article. I wish u all the very best for ur future'. Thanks for reading my blog all these days/months/years. It does not affect in anyway if you are not in a position to read the blog as it is written for public in general. I respect your comments what ever written on articles in blogs and wish you good luck in future things.
ReplyDeletekumar even i feel sorry for she may not be able to read your anymore. Whatever may be the reason may be disconnection of internet at her home by husband or job loss so that no access to internet. But surely she can go to internet centre and read blog as your blog is good. If it is for personal reasons to prove point then it is bad on her. I saw her thing which says you can change jobs, friends and spouses but not yourself. I was shocked of that statement then saw that she is single against her. May be she is viction of step mothers if her fathers had changed spouses time and again or step fathers if her mother has changed husbands time and again. Otherwise I had not seen such statements anywhere. Anyways in entire 100 articles i could hardly see any positive reaction from her. Its good that such type of people does not come and pollute the blog. we are with you and we need your expert guidance through blog so please keep writing good articles.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate and its gud that psnkumar is having no. of well wishers and yes I am also one of them. In above all comments I come to know that psnkumar is not having gud friend.I am strongly against it and I don’t believe in it.we(myself&psnkumar) are very close to each other .we meet daily and also share all gud and bad things dailys.I used to say him DADA.
ReplyDeleteAlmost 12 hours lying unconscious in the hall .
Ask to psnkumar who is responsible for all this.I will tell you psnkumar himself is responsible for it . And this type of accident is not new for him .There might be lots of reason behind it (might be privacy, social, personal due to which friend is helpless to help ).Many times I used to say dada do something for yourself.But Dada meri kabhi nahi sunte .So its my kind request to all well wisher pls take this issue seriously .If you all really feel that you are a good friend of him. Because simply pointing finger to any body will not solve the issue . special thanks in advance to all who is going to take initiate .Best luck.
Anjali please dont be personal on anybody if they dont want to read blog. I have already answered that. What will u get by going into problems or causes. Everybody has right to live. Let us not take it away. Regarding sachin he was most helpful to me when I was suffering from death phobeia. I used to sleep in his office for more than 4 months. Whenever I am into professional tensions he is there to share. Regarding personal tensions i need to find solutions by myself. My professional tensions during MS days etc he was the shoulder for me. I am responsible for whatever has happened. I was unable to handle professional and personal pressures at same time or may be age is catching up to show its presence or health is showing that it is not in best of state. Whatever reason it is me who is responsible and I would request not to point fingers for the blog is for growth not for pointing fingers. Pls be positive.
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